Credit: 深坑中的Jolin
English Translation: Eileen Tan
Edited by sukkiesfanncusa
Day 2
Before I am just an actor, organized fan meeting to sing just a few songs and then have a talk show session with fans. But I started to plan for Cri Show last year after becoming a singer. This year is Cri Show 2. Yesterday mama asked me how long would I want to do Cri Show continuously? I said next year will be Cri Show 3, Cri Show 4, Cri Show5 etc.. It would be great if I can continue like this, when I have Cri Show 10, it will be my 30th anniversary of my debut.
Sometimes I will put on a suit and go to the company, just as a president of the company go to work, but I always argue with the staff (laughs). I was once told by others that is not good for my image, is better not to do that. Actually when I was younger, I’m always running away from my mom, I don’t think I have changed till now. (audience laughed).
Before I ran away all the time to the stores to play with noona (older sisters) there. Everybody has things that they want to do and please cherish your own dreams too. Although mom is scary, but I will still go to the company to argue. Recently although I’m always seen travelling around and having fun with friends, but my health condition is not too good, I always have cold hands and cold feet, who can help me to keep me warm? (Eels shouted I WANT / ME!)
In fact, my whole family love drinking. I’m a self acclaimed good drinker who does not lose to anyone except to Mom and Dad. When 3 of us got drunk, we will always repeat the same topic, for example, the things during I was studying in New Zealand and we will keep it going on and on. I normally will stop drinking when getting drunk while drinking with my parents, because you won’t know what will happen next. But dad can still continue with friends for a 2nd drinking session! This is my family.
Note: We all know he has a loving and supportive parents and a great family. Remember he shouted out during Team H New Year’s Show in Tokyo? He said twice in English: Mother and Father, I love you!!! This photos was taken during the ceremony of his donation to Hanyang University on 2011-11-19, what a nice shot of the happy family.
He really love his family, look like they are a very close family. He has the combination look of his mom and dad.
poor boy, then … his parents are alcoholics??? … poor Sukkie, I think that’s why his beloved does not want to accept, for their family habits.
He once said, “the day I have my own family, I will stop drinking for my new family.”
now I understand, he wanted to stop drinking for her, but … your family has a very strange habit over the drink, they drink too much.
I feel sorry for all the emotional problems that is happening our prince, really want to love, but can not.
prince might, hope you can love freely and that you do not feel alone.
Since June of this year I see you so sad and distressed.
my heart hurts to see you so sad and unable to tell anyone your sorrows. I’m cry.
always …all eels love Sukkie.
seriously, this is the point you get from there 😀
they just drink together.
as well as I understand, in korea drinking is an expected behavior from men.
he just drink wth his parent and have fun.
he never have an alcoholism problem.
he is in entertainment industry for so long, believe me, if he had a problem with his family we will hear it.
fans/eels always ask for quiting smoking and drinking for his health. i beleve he says he will quit when he get married for us/eels.
by the way, he works and do his responsibilities. when he is drunk, he didn’t cause any public problem so i think, this is an a deal.
this is his life and i believe he has a happy life.
as a human, his mood can be high or low. he is not a robot.
Ginna, hi, how are you doing? i don’t think the right term is ‘alcoholic’. maybe the family love to drink. that’s their ‘time’ to be together and discuss things…..anyway, we are here for our prince and we love him so much right? Peace and God Bless you!
welcome Ginna.
I am a fan of JGS, recently three years ago, and is the first year I see him so afflicted on the subject of “love”, a few months ago he wanted to have a girlfriend, have children (married) .. JGS wanted to change his life for the better, he began to exercise more, JGS wanted to stop drinking and smoking … really had good intentions to change … This is the result of “Love” … and even though he says he was never in love in interviews past (approximately in 2011) he confessed that his whole life was 2 times in love, and this year in an interview says he was only 3 times in love … (get out your calculations).
So long, I was knowing him, but I must confess I did not know the habits of your family with excessive alcohol … and … than that to JGS is part of a family tradition (only his family, because some drink, but not as much.)
In Korean families are governed by the honor and good customs, there are different ways of thinking, one before have the richness, one must possess honor and personal values … The excessive drinking is frowned upon by Korean families , … Here if you want to marry, you have to introduce your girlfriend/boyfriend to your family and hope that your parents approve the relationship.
Maybe You hate me for writing this, but it’s true, I believe parents of the girl than JGS fell in love, … her family do not accept to JGS for excessive habits with alcohol, cigarettes and parties (habits acquired by his family).
JGS is one of the best actors, is a great singer, is a humble and generous person, is the most beautiful in Korea, but … their family and personal history with drinking and smoking are killing with him, I think that’s the core of the problem, so JGS can’t have the blessing and permission of the parents of the girl….Now He looks so sad and …feels lonely.
Leeteuk ‘s super junior spoke in an interview about his sad story, leeteuk with tears in his eyes said her father drank a lot and that the alcohol was bringing problems and fights in his family, he kept that secret to his fans for long. Now he told it and hopes to have a nice family, leeteuk does not like drinking, only provides in commitments (but in small quantities) leeteuk prefers drinking a juice. Leeteuk has seen up close as alcohol destroys a family, so he is his desire to marry and have a happy family, nice, united and away from alcohol.
Our JGS, The last time he wrote and spoke to want to have a girlfriend, that caused him some problems with some eels jealous.
I think he is saving many sad emotions because JGS does not want angry or lose to his fans eels, too…
FIGTHING JGS.
PD: I always ask that children so young want to leave his family, going to live in New Zealand?.
I am a fan of JGS, recently three years ago, and is the first year I see him so afflicted on the subject of “love”, a few months ago he wanted to have a girlfriend, have children (married) .. JGS wanted to change his life for the better, he began to exercise more, JGS wanted to stop drinking and smoking … really had good intentions to change … This is the result of “Love” … and even though he says he was never in love in interviews past (approximately in 2011) he confessed that his whole life was 2 times in love, and this year in an interview says he was only 3 times in love … (get out your calculations).
So long, I was knowing him, but I must confess I did not know the habits of your family with excessive alcohol … and … than that to JGS is part of a family tradition (only his family, because some drink, but not as much.)
In Korean families are governed by the honor and good customs, there are different ways of thinking, one before have the richness, one must possess honor and personal values … The excessive drinking is frowned upon by Korean families , … Here if you want to marry, you have to introduce your girlfriend/boyfriend to your family and hope that your parents approve the relationship.
Maybe You hate me for writing this, but it’s true, I believe parents of the girl than JGS fell in love, … her family do not accept to JGS for excessive habits with alcohol, cigarettes and parties (habits acquired by his family).
JGS is one of the best actors, is a great singer, is a humble and generous person, is the most beautiful in Korea, but … their family and personal history with drinking and smoking are killing with him, I think that’s the core of the problem, so JGS can’t have the blessing and permission of the parents of the girl….Now He looks so sad and …feels lonely.
Leeteuk ‘s super junior spoke in an interview about his sad story, leeteuk with tears in his eyes said her father drank a lot and that the alcohol was bringing problems and fights in his family, he kept that secret to his fans for long. Now he told it and hopes to have a nice family, leeteuk does not like drinking, only provides in commitments (but in small quantities) leeteuk prefers drinking a juice. Leeteuk has seen up close as alcohol destroys a family, so he is his desire to marry and have a happy family, nice, united and away from alcohol.
Our JGS, The last time he wrote and spoke to want to have a girlfriend, that caused him some problems with some eels jealous.
I think he is saving many sad emotions because JGS does not want angry or lose to his fans eels, too…
FIGTHING JGS.
FIGTHING JGS
FIGTHING JGS
FIGTHING JGS
PD: always ask me… that children so young want to leave his family, going to live in New Zealand?.
ohhh he loves his family no matter what !
I love stories like this one!! I love knowing that I made the right choice in loving this guy so much and becoming one of his eels!! Not only is he super talented in all areas (for what can be seen) but he is also a loving family man!
All in all, he is perfect! And while some people will judge him for his honesty and some others will focus on his mistakes, those imperfections are precisely why he is so loved and admired by so many…because he is just like one of us mere mortals, perfectly flawed but he still chooses to be a winner and a go-getter – and that’s what makes him so perfect!!
Exactly, Kley -Kley.. Imperfections make JKS more real to us! That’s why eels love him! While his sincerity and strong determination to achieve and pursue his dreams gain more and more supports from his eels..
I have never wrong to be in love this poor boy needs warm hug from
Me.:))Always be sincere and have open hearted no matter what does his family is, he loves to tell eels .Ofcourse the inborn habbit is very difficulty to change but since he knows it is wrong he will definitely change it .What his health is not really good ? He has got cold hands , foots ? Sukkie I am always here for you to warm your extremities up .kkk
I can see how lonely you are dear prince .My poor boy I love you so
Much .
Beautiful mom + handsome dad = great prince….!
No matter what happened it calls lovely family, ‘coz we will always miss them all where ever and how far we go.
Miss u my prince..!
Susan is right. I wouldn’t use the term alcoholic.It’s too harsh and judgmental towards those who enjoy drinking but are not drunkards. I’m sure “Actions speak louder than words”. Those who drink and get drunk everyday cannot work and focus like our Prince. The way he and his parents work and support each other to achieve his goals one step at a time is very admirable. A good role model family. It’s not everyday that he would spend time with his parents. Ginna is so innocent. Of course, he can be in love but not ready to make a commitment.He seems a very sincere individual Health wise, let’s pray that he will keep well.
I came to know of JKS through the drama You’re Beautiful in May 2012, I fell in love with both JKS and PSH (Don’t Worry I’m 62) so i started doing a research on them. It was not the movies or the looks but his attitude towards almost everyone and everything around him is what caught my attention. His personality at interviews, his intelligent and honest answers, his concerned look when he wants to avoid answering a personal question which has to involve another person and the relieved look when able to avoid that (e.g. In Guru interview) topics he speaks about and his outlook on life, creative ideas and how he is planning his future has gained my respect. It shows we don’t need a PHD. to achieve our dreams but a good education and by being true to self and others can do wonders. I am a retired teacher and yet learnt a few facts from JKS interviews. I value them so much that I share it with my children hoping they will have a more positive outlook in life. My youngest son is 18, he and i are the only 2 that are into Korean dramas and movies. For me it is only the ones with JKS or PSH. I’ve watched them all and picked up a bit of Korean. I travel a lot and have been to Seoul for vacation, it was fall and the weather seemed like in Toronto. I even admire him more for speaking about his family with pride and to know he values the time spent with them. Beautiful mom, handsome dad and an incredible looking Prince. God Bless them!
Dear Anne,
Love your comments, well said and described here. I also got the same feeling as you about this young actor/singer. Of course, it might have been his look and his characters in dramas and movies that first attracted us. But with his interviews and words in various occasions that reveal his real personality and thoughts, he does deserve our love and admiration 🙂
Good afternoon Mam Anne, may i call you “mam’ because that’s the title that we use to give to a teacher here in the Philippines. I am grateful to find someone like you here in this blog. I am also a teacher and i am happy that teachers like us also find something good and admirable about our Asia Prince. I thank you also, Mam Anne, for confirming my thought on Ginna’s comment about Prince Family. Thanks once more and have a blessed day.
Anne, thanks again for your well said and input!!
I realized that some fans nagged Sukkie “stop smoking, stop drinking, stop dressing a girl….etc”, for good intention I’m sure, but sometimes I just cannot stand it when fans take Sukkie’s comments or actions or content of the articles out of proportion.
EELs all know Sukkie is not a perfect star, we only think of him nearly perfect that all…kekeke
Very well said Anne. 🙂 Thank you.
Kailey and sukkiefanNCUSA:
My appreciation to both of you.
Will drop-by and share my comments, sometimes.
yeah..we know that for some reason- as i might well say fate ? destiny ?(ur choice :)) that leads us to know him – Jang Keun Suk. Personally , i can never be more grateful than have to know him all this while.The bond he have with his family is something that he cherished and what better way to share his love for his family than with eels? He understands that at the end of the night/day -family is the important..
God knows that I love and admire this man, but … after to known his family…I would never marry me with him, I’m sorry! (you heard adage: “if you marry whit this man, also you will marry their family”.)… I will not like to see my mother in law and my father in law drunk asking second round of alcohol, I could not tolerate them, …but , I love Sukki, but I would not marry him.
but, I wish Sukkie can be with his beloved … and sukki will be happy ..very very happy, but (far away from their parents).
My words may sound harsh, but I want him to be happy and …for…that he will be happy?!…he need to make their own decisions.
the Love and marriage are only of 2. —> (sukki and his “girlfriend_zikzin”)
always we support sukkie…brilliant sukki^^ 🙂
Just want to said that what he said about love drinking is that they can consume alcohol a lot before getting drunk than most people in other words they are not easily get drunk. I think he doesn’t mean that they are drinking everyday but on certain occasion like celebration or when they spent family time together. If he couldn’t control his alcohol intake then I don’t think he can work and accomplish what he achieve now. What he achieve are not an easy feat and he’a more like a workaholic than an alcoholic.
Dear lulamz and susan,
It is a pleasure to find those of us who think and feel alike. I hope many young people will learn and see him as a role model, from all his positive sides. No one is perfect, but the way he challenges himself to bring out the best of his abilities is also one of his virtues. Susan, feel free to address me as Anne and how nice to find another teacher who enjoys blogging. For me it actually was the article and the innocent comment that urged me to shed some light hoping to stop the misunderstanding.
If you have time, I have just posted my comments and thoughts at Words from JKS before he sang “In my dream”. Hope you both will share my views, again. Happy reading!
Dear Anne,
It’s my pleasure too. Love reading your insightful comments and will stop by to share your views.. 🙂
Oh! buttercup: I share your outlook. At the same time i feel he has set boundaries for parents and eels. I think the joy he shows when he is with his eels is very sincere and the way he prepares and gives his best performance is his way of showing great appreciation and in a way returning the respectful love received from his eels. In my opinion, his eels are important to him and that seems meaningful.
It’s funny why some ppl find his saying about his family time negative..from what I see, it’s really cool thing that a son can hang out with both parents over drink. It’s not like these drinking session is causing troubles, maybe to the health, but not to the relationship for sure. I think the one of best bonding is through drinking.
Allow me to express my opinion, I think when Sukkie mentioned that he and his family are a bunch of drinker,meaning dringking is their way of bonding..If you know Sukkie well, you can always tell if he’s serious or not because he loves to tease his eels..JKS family is wonderful, they raised him so well to think that “drinking” can affect their behaviour or something,I don’t think so!! In fact Sukkie is very intelligent and well grounded, u may see his picture with bottles of alcohol & cigarettes it doesnt mean that he has no sense of responsibility..
So far, Sukkie never fail to amaze me with his deep thoughts, I’m older than him but my way of thinking is no much to him.. Who is perfect anyway? I’d rather choose an honest,crazy, loving, wacky but a very sincere “STAR’like JKS than those oh so perfect creatures we see on TV..
Love him for who he is, and nothing will ever change that!! peace!!
Anne,I love your comments! And its a fact that children who achievers are well guided by parents. And how Sukkie achieved is a great manifestation of good guidance from responsible parents.
love to read all insights coming from you guys
i think sukkie and his family has a high tolerance
when it comes to alcohol,bec.they didnt got drunk
so easily.Its not that hes having a bad family and its
nothing to do with ALCOHOLISM.